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Therapy 4U+ was something I had not tried before, and was suitably anxious prior to commencing having had several bouts of unsuccessful therapy previously. I was allowed to have online therapy via teams, which was perfect for my needs as I work full time meaning time off work for therapy appointments would not have been possible. With where I was at emotionally for the sessions, teams enabled me to be more vulnerable and honest than I would have felt able to had I been made to attend in person therapy. It also meant reduced anxiety and better recovery from sessions as there was no travel time , increasing my rest period after to reflect or rest as needed.
My therapist Gill, was the first care professional in a long time who seemed to have actually read my background and issues, and adjusted the sessions to what I needed. Trust was built over time and not simply expected from session 1 , and traumatic topics were discussed compassionately and in a manner where I never felt "forced" or pushed into a discussion I was not ready for. A feeling of safety and control were key needs of mine during therapy and resources/coping skills were provided to ensure any difficulties between sessions were managed.
Despite the difficult nature of some topics discussed, some of which I never thought I would verbalise, Gill had built the trust enabling progress to be made. Crucially, Gill did what she said she would, when she said she would, and always explained what was happening.
I would say confidently that the therapy 4u+ sessions were the most successful and beneficial I have had in my entire medical history going back several decades. Whilst not "cured" I have a better understanding of my past, my triggers, and what positive actions work for me .
I am extremely grateful for the 20 sessions I received (and to Gill for requesting the full amount for me) . I would recommend therapy 4u+ to a friend or colleague in need, but especially to those like myself who have long term trauma as from my experience this seemed to be particular strength of the therapy.