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Mr Yadava Jeve 2022-03-06 Person 5 5 0

The path of infertility is toxic when not handled with the right tools. I believe a very important tool in our desperate struggle to have a baby is the right medical support. Understanding the cause of the infertility, the nature of it, its consequences, and the possible ways to rectify it are essential from the medical point of view. But there is so much more than hormonal injections, sterile encounters with medics and nurses, routine blood tests and medical observation to fertility. See, what I painfully learned from seeing 3 fertility specialists before Dr. Jadava Jeve, is that I needed a doctor to do all that medical side, but I also desperately needed a human being to listen to me patiently and with empathy, to answer my never-ending list of absurd questions, treat me with kindness and compassion at the most vulnerable stage of my life. It’s hard to be rendered defected by society when you want to have a baby, and the fertility medical world sees to it that we hear it loud and clear through the language that is used and the standard protocols they treat us with. The last thing you need is to go through all that struggle with a stone-cold doctor that sees you only as a number in a statistic on his website. I knew Dr. Jeve was different from our 1st appointment. Not only that he listened patiently to everything I had to say, but he also remembered and wrote down, and made mind maps to explain to me in ways I can understand what the issues. All the other doctors dismissed my comments, ignoring my concerns completely and pushing me to sign the IVF papers from the 1st visit. I refused; it didn’t feel right knowing there should be a gradual route to that last resort. And I was right. Not everyone needs the same treatment course, not everyone needs to undergo IVF from the very beginning, even when you’re 41. We are all different, and our treatment plan should be reflecting that individuality. We agreed on a strategy together which left IVF as the last option, and 4 months later I got pregnant, with twins, without IVF. Yes, I had to do hormonal treatment as per Dr. Jeve’s instruction before and during the 1st trimester, but I now understood the logic behind everything which helped my mind finally help my body through it. I cannot thank Dr. Jeve enough for making me feel like a human being and help me the way he did, and I cannot recommend him enough if you struggle with infertility.